Scoring the phone number of someone you’re interested in feels like a
major victory
and it is. But it’s also just the beginning.
Once you’ve
got that number in hand
you have to figure out what to actually text the person,
and when, and how often. So no pressure,
but
your entire romantic future here could be determined by your first few
text messages.
Here’s the best way to approach texting someone you want
to date, according to the experts.
Name: Kimberly
All-time sex
Age: 23
2 hour : 10 US
The more text conversations you start, the more comfortable you’ll get with the process. You’ll learn what style of texting works and doesn’t work for you, and you can use your most successful conversation starters again and again.
This was by far the most common advice you’ll find: don’t just text someone 'hey'
In fact, if you browse some online dating profiles you’ll probably find people sharing the same advice. While writing the book Modern Romance, comedian Aziz Ansari and
Dr. Eric Klinenberg, Professor of Sociology at New York University, organized hundreds of focus groups to decipher the modern dating landscape. When they asked the focus groups about their personal texts. they found that participants unanimously agreed that the “hey” text is a bad idea.
Name: Mary
All-time sex
Age: 22
2 hour : 8 US
Just so you know, I’m going to eat you out tonight.
I can’t stop looking through those pictures you sent me. You look so sexy.
Tonight is going to be all about you, baby. You don’t have to lift a finger.
You want me to have sex all the time
All-time sex
Age: 19
2 hour : 7 US
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